Alternatives to this question would probably be “I want to upgrade my lenses, which ones are good?” or “What’s next after kit lens?”
A good way to approach this question will be to pay attention to your shooting style (for example do you prefer to shoot say, indoor, landscapes, sports or street?) and preference (for example being light enough for travel). Another way to approach this question will be through data a.k.a discovering which focal lengths do you most frequently shoot with from your photos (photos that you are proud of/happy to show to people preferably), Once you can get this data, you can infer from it your shooting style and the possible lenses to get next. To get this set of data, I have used a standalone tool like Exposure Plot.